ACCEPT PEOPLE
Disrespecting children for who they are, and mostly parents with baggage, do this by not accepting them and not realizing the damage it likely causes. Children are the pools of knowledge; they carry divine truth, so instead of molding them into your liking, it’s important to learn from them. We cannot change others, as we know very well; it’s crucial to self-parent, which we will learn in this blog post.
There’s a lot of societal pressure a parent has to go through, but one has to draw the line on what to take in and what to avoid and reject. If the conditioning is such that the surrounding people are overly materialistic and status-oriented, then similar problems will come home. And that’s how important it is to surround yourself with mature people, not the broken ones.
When these societal standards are pressured on children, like always getting good marks, getting scolded for every little mistake, and not being allowed to make mistakes or have flaws, these chaotic home situations become suffocating and a big wall of a cage. Children will face the world as adults, which will not be perfect; hence, it is crucial to provide a safe atmosphere at home during their growing phase so they can handle things and grow.
If the home isn’t safe and peaceful, it can damage children’s cognitive development. All the difficult childhood memories disrupt and distort the sense of self. Lack of individuality, difficulty trusting instincts, and decision-making abilities are getting worse. A child suffers from a lack of individuality, which makes them ashamed of who they are and forces them to do everything according to their liking.
Actually, a child learns a lot of better ways to deal with life and wants to thrive in life. Living a life is not easy for many since it is way too overwhelming due to the generational patterns, such as where childhood abuse comes all around, making a full circle. People who are hurt hurt other people. The problem is that the nervous system is programmed such that it seems impossible; above all, they are hypervigilant and have various fears, which are indeed suffocating and nevertheless heartbreaking.
3 Ways To Handle:
1: Too much stress, and the body will keep track before you even notice it at times. It’s important to jot down your truth when you knew you were right and your intuition was right; make sure you write it down as a pointer. So that your reality is not disrupted, and hence you can carry on with your schedule.
2: Do not compare your journey with other people. By helping yourself, you are helping the next seven generations and the previous seven generations. Everything is connected in this universe; when you pray for your ancestors now, it will help them in their journey in whatever life. And that forms your tribe of energy, where each one of you will lift each other; doing for your family, especially for those who carry similar karmic and generational baggage, would be easier and better.
3: Affirmations like “I am safe, I am protected.” “I am loved unconditionally by the divine.” Ho’oponopono prayer for the ancestors and family members every single day, whether living or dead, is a must.
Conclusion:
If you relate to this blog post and other articles, know that you are meant to uplift other people along with you. You are a miracle who is like a hero or heroine of a movie; at the climax of your life, you are that missing piece of the puzzle. Pick yourself up, accept people for who they are, complain less, blame others less, avoid the mess, and take your self-parenting to the highest level. Rise and shine—grow into your authentic self. All the best.